Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Spare A Prayer


My Dear Friends,

For those of you that have children of your own, children on the way, or plans to have some...some day, remember when you first started "trying" to have a baby and you kept it a big 'ol secret until that 12 week mark and then practically screamed it from the hilltops so the whole world would know? I definitely do...

Well, here's our story.

After a couple months of trying for baby # 2, I'm still not pregnant. This isn’t necessarily a problem and we surely don’t think something is “wrong”. But, Curt will be deploying with his squadron next September and if I'm not pregnant by Christmas, I'll be delivering this baby while he's away. We're completely prepared to do this, but of course would love to have him here at least for the delivery.

My request is this...

Please pray for our family over the next month in the hopes that we can get a "bun in the oven" before the new year!

Lots of Love and Thanks- C, M, and Miss A.

PS: So, technically I "named" Ava, as that was my first choice and the agreement was that Curt would win out on naming #2 as a fair trade. I, of course, have to like the name but if it's a stand still in the delivery room, as it was with Ava, he would win. Blah, blah, blah.

However... I've already fallen in love with potential baby girl number 2's name. (Which means I will naturally being having a boy...) ;)

Noelle Marie Dougherty.

"Marie" is in Curt's family as middle names passed down just as Ava "Elizabeth" is from my side of the family.

Soooo..... C'mon Noelle!!!!!!! Hurry up!!!!!!! ;)

Lastly, Tara did yet ANOTHER amazing job capturing our family in photographs and here is just a couple that I just LOVE! It’s so hard to choose... Tara is so talented!

www.tlohsephotography.com
www.tlohsephoto.com













Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Some Of This, Some Of That

It's been a couple weeks since I said "Hi!" to my blogger friends, so here's a random spattering of what we've been up to lately! I'll try and stick to the highlights, so I don't ramble on too much!

But, let me start by showing you what we're trying to teach Ava these days. Getting a toddler to smile on cue is tricky and I wish she learned this about 4 days ago when we took some pictures with TLohse, but what can you do. She gets it now, so, that's all that matters! (The second picture, well, I just liked it. She looks like she's up to no good!).


We made it back to PA without any problems (Thank you, Lord!) and started a whirlwind trip in the northeast. We spent about 48 hours in Pennsylvania and then three days in Baltimore. It went so quickly and we were exhausted by the time we made our long trek back down to NC. Drew and Sharon's wedding was simply perfect, from start to finish. Sharon made a beautiful bride, as if there were any doubt, and she and Drew were just as calm and cool as could be for the entire thing. It was gorgeous! I took over at the wedding and reception with my Mom's super fancy Canon and I'm still waiting for her to send them my way so I can post all 700+ of them! (Well, I won't really post 700, but evidently that's how many were taken.) Ava did a fantastic job as a flower girl and she made it down the aisle all by herself without any stage fright! She made for a darling addition to the wedding party. Now, the fact that she tried to climb the alter to reach her Daddy once she made it down there, well, that's another story. I think it went something like this, "Hi Daddy!!! Hi Daddy!!!" (as she tried to climb the alter, only to be stopped, which ended up in tears. During the procession. Oopsie!). I think all was forgotten though, once the doors were opened and the bride came in, phew! I'll be sure to give more updates once the pictures come my way! (Ahem, Mom!) :) In the meantime, here's a few I have from my handheld Canon, and maybe one I stole from Curt's cousin on facebook. ;)





Also while we were home, much to my surprise, the "small" birthday party I tried to throw for Ava was planned to be something much bigger than I knew about, sneaky family! My Mom and sisters went out of their way to plan a big ol' party for Ava's 2nd Birthday which included some of my friends, and lots of our immediate and extended family. It was wonderful! I honestly didn't want to take any of the excitement away from Drew and Sharon's big weekend so I thought throwing a big party would be too much! So, what they did was have the get together on a Thursday night and made it possible for as many people as they could get to come. It was great! Ava was a trooper, too! She yelled out, "SMILE!" when there was about 10 cameras pointed in her direction! (Hmmm, wonder why she's so comfortable in front of the camera?!?!). She refused to eat much of anything, including some of her Tigger and Pooh cake, but I think it was in part to her yucky cold and the overwhelming excitement of all that was going on. It even took her a few minutes to stop and realize the awesomeness that is opening presents! She cried for the first couple minutes but once she realized that under all that wrapping paper there were toys galore, she was just fine with opening the rest. She managed to learn the "Birthday Song" which she likes to sing over and over again, and even treated Poppy to a quick version last night when we did our iChat for his birthday! (The birthday pictures will come in a different post, still waiting to edit!)

We have another quick trip up to PA planned in a few weeks, but just for Ava and I this time. Curt is headed to Texas for work so we figured we would take a trip up to see family since we won't see them again until Christmas. It may seem like a lot of driving for some, but, this why we chose Seymour as our home and we plan on making many, many trips up I95 over the next few years. Who knows when we'll be within driving distance once again! November proves to be a busy month for us as Curt's parents are headed down our way for a weekend to visit. Lots of family time makes us very happy!

Curt and I are making a conscious effort to take more time for ourselves lately. We have another concert to go to this weekend! That makes three in the past 2 months! I'm also headed out to see Carrie Underwood at the end of the month with Gretchen and I can't WAIT!!! We have seats 11 rows from the center stage. HECK YEA! It's going to be a great time for both shows! I love me some live music! We are trying to take Ava to a corn maze this weekend as well as carve some pumpkins that I bought. Rumor has it, if you cut the pumpkin open too early and leave it outside, the critters have themselves a little feast on your fall decor, so we're trying to wait so we can enjoy them as long as possible!

Finally, Miss Ava is doing well as a brand new two year old! She's doing more each day, talking a million miles per minute, making requests, demands...you get the gist! She's smart as whip and soaks up more than we ever thought possible. I'll leave you with a few Ava-ism's and A LOT of pictures!

-Ava's newest phrase is, "Ta-Da!", and she uses it after she's accomplished something out of the ordinary. It's pretty funny! For example, she stacked up a couple books, climbed on top, and then jumped to the ground! So, therefore that stunt deserved a "Ta-Da"!

-Playing Babies is Ava's most favorite thing in the entire world to do. She cares for them just about as much as I care for her! Lately, if they're sleeping, she whispers quietly and says, "Mommy, SHHHH! Baby sleepin'...". Or, if she's holding one and has to run into her room, she politely asks Curt or I to "hold baby, be right back". So nurturing!

-As soon as Ava wakes up in the morning, she's immediately asks, "Where's Daddy?", to which I either say, "Sleeping", or, "He's at work.". It Daddy's at work, she likes to list all the things he has to be wearing that day in order to be at work. Goes a little something like this, "Daddy at work. He wear 'fight suit', an socks, and boots.". So observant!

-Ava still loves her dance class more than anything else! She's learned a couple songs there which she sings over and over again! Her latest favorite is, "5 little monkeys swinging from a tree, teasing Mr. Alligator, can't catch me...", along with all the choreographed motions. She loves to sing this for her cousin, AJ. He's surely thought she's lost her mind! He's still cute, though!

-Even after our trip home, Ava still has a massive crush on my sister in law's fiance, Warren. She talks about him non stop. Well, when she finally saw him again at the wedding, she freakin' lost it, and not in a good way. She saw him in the hotel lobby and immediately started crying! It was just too much for her! Never has she acted this way about someone we know, ever! It's so crazy! She's too little!!!! Ha! :) It didn't get better over time, either. She cried every time she saw him and in an effort to soothe herself in his presence, she kept her eyes closed the entire time he was there. She's crazy about him!

-I've finally got the ABC's on video and plan on posting it on FB today! It's kinda cheesy, since I had to video it myself. It's so much more fun when Curt does it with Ava so if I have time and remember to video them tonight, I'll try to post that one instead. Be on the look-out!

So my friend, Amy Duncan, is extremely talented and took on the project of making a 2nd Birthday outfit for Ava, and it turned out AMAZING! We were planning on using this little number in the photo shoot we just did with TLohse but unfortunately, it was the most fall-like weather that morning and it was only in the low 60's and windy! Curt and I thought it would make for a very unhappy Ava if we had her romping around in a skirt and t-shirt, so much to my dismay, we had to wait and do the pictures on another day. I think it's safe to say that I'm not photographer and since I only got these 7-ish pictures out of the 90+ that I took, I have the evidence to back it up. I'm happy that it was almost 80 yesterday and that we were able to get some pictures of Ava in this outfit! It's SO CUTE!










Here is Ava lovin' on her babies. She as two. The both have very different needs as she only give the one baby a bottle and the other gets a sippy cup. One baby is always in the high chair and the other is always in the crib. So particular! ;) (You may not notice it, but of course there's some baby powder on my couch. Of course!).




My house is officially decorated for fall, ya'll! I'm sure I could have gone overboard but in order to make both Curt and myself happy, this is what we came up with... He was not all about the fall-like explosion on the front porch. He's all about the festive decor, but only to a certain extent. I'm pretty happy with the final product!



Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Welcome, Fall!


Well, fall is finally here in the great state of North Carolina. Took ya long enough, geez! It literally went from being in the 90's with a blazing sun and record setting humidity to a nice 60-70 degree days with a chilly breeze to boot. What happened? Well, a "monsoon" hit, also known as Tropical Storm "Nicole". Nicole dumped a record setting 8+ inches over the period of a few days and we are STILL under a flood watch for the Neuse River. But, I welcomed Nicole with open arms and was tempted to all but open up my guest room so she could stay as long as she wished. We didn't have a single drop to rain for over a month before this storm so to say we needed a good soaking, well, that'd be an understatement. We are now enjoying cooler daily high temps and even nights dipping into the 40's. This is the kinda weather that makes me want to get out of my house and enjoy the day.

So with the start of fall came a great day out at the park. We were celebrating a friend of Ava's 2nd birthday on base and the day was just fantastic. We even needed jackets when we first got there! I tend to be the one behind the lens these days so I rarely find myself in a picture with Ava. I'll try to be better!

I don't really have much news to report other than the big wedding coming up this weekend! My dress is ready to be picked up tomorrow morning, just in time, as we're leaving around lunch to make the 7-8 hour drive up to Pennsylvania to see our families. I hope Ava sleeps for most of it! (Keep dreamin'...). Ava usually does really well on long car rides but seeing how her last road trip, which was only about 4 hours, was a major bust...I'm a tad worried. Fingers crossed! Prayers said! Entertainment packed! Let's do this...

My Mom is hosting a 2nd birthday party for Ava and we only plan on having immediate family there. I promise I'm not intending on leaving out all the friends we have at home on this night but you see, I'll only be in PA for about 48 hours and I want to soak up as much time with my sisters as possible. My parents and, of course, Curt's mom and dad will be at the wedding in Maryland so we'll see them all weekend as well. We just plan making up for lost time, eating, drinking, relaxing, and celebrating Ava's second birthday. I'm taking another quick trip home early November sans Curt so I'll catch up with everyone then!

Ava is doing so awesome these days! I have to say, her sense of humor lately has been cracking us up. She's laughing out loud when she watches cartoons, playing tricks on Curt and I around the house, and just being such a fun and creative little girl all around. (Remember those easy-going days? Eh, me either...). Ava just bring so much entertainment to our lives these days! We just love her to pieces and have to keep ourselves in check with how much we spoil her with love and attention these days. Not that it's even possible to love too much, but you know what I mean. We need those boundaries to be in check too!

This past week we found ourselves a "back up" babysitter. We already have a girl that we really like as our primary sitter but just the other day a really nice 17 year old girl who lives two houses down came to our door with her own little babysitting business card. No joke. She's "CPR/Red Cross certified, trustworthy, and responsible". We did a test run today, which is what I always do with a potential sitter, and she came over to play with Ava while I was home. Based on all the noise and laughter coming from the toy room, I'd say she was a keeper. Ava ran right into her arms the second she walked in the front door...and she'd never even met her
before! Yes, please!

Okay, so before I ramble on any more, here are a few of the pictures I mentioned from the other day out at the park. Sorry my facebook friends, you've already seen these.






Monday, September 27, 2010

Dressed To Impress!

Well... I hope so, at least. Friends, I've been fighting off the "need" to buy a new dress for my brother in law's wedding mainly because of the dang cost of it all! Why oh WHY must an evening dress be so freaking expensive? Do I want to look nice? Of course! I'm not just a guest at this wedding, I'm family so I need to bring my A-game, ya know? I love dressing up just as much as the next girly girl in the group but seeing how we have formal and semi formal AND cocktail events with Curt's work all year long, this stuff gets expensive. This wedding is black tie so cocktail dresses were right out. The only 3 formal gowns I own are all in the beige to ivory family and seeing how I'm going to a wedding, that's just wrong. Anything in the ivory/beige/cream/white family is strictly off limits unless you're the one tying the know. It's funny how often people break that rule these days. Get a clue, people. Be traditional and leave the white to the bride.

My ebay find fell through because the price got a bit higher than I wanted it to and if I'm buying something off ebay, I'm not paying a lot. That's the point of ebay!

So here's what I just bought. It's Calvin Klein, and I hope I bought the right size or then I'm really in trouble. According to their "size" charts, I'm one size on top and another size on the bottom. Fantastic. I have approximately 8 business days to get this thing delivered to my house and altered to fit. In other words, I need a miracle. I bought it from Nordstrom and they're usually pretty speedy with the shipping, even though it's saying 5-7 business days. Eek! Also, the lady who does my alterations is really great about getting things done quickly when you need them. I may have to throw a little money at the problem, story of my life, to make sure we're all set in time.



It's really pretty, classic, satin, and I do believe it will hide my lady flaws and make me feel like a million bucks that night. Pretty, right?

(Ummm, did I just dedicate an entire post to my dress drama? You bet I did!)

Sunday, September 26, 2010

Happy Anniversary...To Us!

Curt and I celebrated 6 years of being married to each other this past weekend in Charlotte, NC. Why Charlotte? Well, mostly because it was a change of scenery from our normal G'boro life and even the weekend trips that we always take to Raleigh. We decided to bring Miss Ava along for the trip, which was great. However, Ava used to be awesome at long car rides and now? Not so much... We had all the appropriate entertainment but for some reason, she was OVER it from start to finish. Made it a tad stressful but we are still really happy she came along with us. We always sit around and miss her when she's not there!


We didn't do any major tourist attractions, mostly because of time. We left on Saturday morning and came back on Sunday afternoon. It's about a 4 hour drive so... There was a really fun kid-centered place we were hoping to try out but it wasn't even open until noon and since Curt had to go into work tonight and study, we didn't have time to wait. Bummer.

However, after much lusting and saving, I came home with this beauty. Yes, this bag is "end all, be all" for me. (Not the "last" bag, is that even possible?) :) Unless you truly love and appreciate timeless handbags like I do, you wouldn't understand the excitement and fulfillment I get from such a luxury item. I know I'll love this bag forever AND ever and someday, when she's ready, it will be Ava's. I was so excited to finally buy this bag that Curt was just as excited for me. About a purse. Madness.


To celebrate 6 years we reminisced, ate A LOT of good food, spent a lot of time with our feet up, watched A LOT of football...

SPEAKING of football! My gift to Curt was a couple of tickets to the Eagles game when we're home around Christmas. So, NO, he didn't leave empty handed. Thanks to my great friend, Katie and her FIL who hooked it up with some of their season tickets. Not sure what I'd do without her, and not only because she helped me out with Curt's gift. Our daily texting and tweeting gets us through so much, big and small!!!

Such a great weekend!

We're really looking forward to our trip up to PA next week for Drew's big day! It's going to feel so great to be home for such a big, family event. Counting down....

Monday, September 20, 2010

"Ava-ism's"

Look at me! Three posts in less than a week??? WATCH OUT, Y'all! I'm back...

New word: "Ava-ism's". Creative. I know...

Ava has a couple really cute and fun phrases that she's been using a lot lately! The fact that we can practically have a conversation these days is just crazy to me. Although I'd like to believe that this leaves a lot of the guessing out with what she likes, wants, needs...we're not quite there yet.


So, Ava is a music JUNKIE. It's what she loves most in the this world. Asks for it ALL THE TIME. She doesn't like to dance alone so at least I can now say I have moderate daily exercise built into my life. Whenever a song comes on she says, "What song is this?"! Or, if she doesn't want to hear that song she says, "New song!". She's quite particular and although she loves her Barney songs and dance, this girl is all about the hip hop. Anything with some beat and a base, she's happy!

Back to the potty training business. She now hates to being in any kind of a dirty diaper. In public or in the privacy of our own home she YELLS, "Mommy! Poopy diaper! Change it...". I'm even more motivated to get the potty training now that we're tearing through diapers at the speed of a newborn. $$$!!!

I think Ava's favorite new phrase has to be, "I don't like it!". Man, she uses that one a lot. This past weekend it was all about the Tylenol. I'd say, "Ava, time for the medicine!", to which she always replied, "No! No! I don't like it!". She uses it for pretty much anything she doesn't want to do or like. Napping, sitting in the cart at the store, new foods, too much tickling.... Like I said, she uses it a lot!

Here's one I'm not too proud of, but let me give you some background so hopefully you can show me a little bit of sympathy. Last week while Ava was playing in her room, I was trying to get a whole days worth or dishes into the dishwasher. So, the water was running, the TV was one, and Ava was moving around the house like she always does. As I turned off the water I noticed this strange scratching sound coming from the hallway. I turned off the water and as I turned the corner out of the kitchen I noticed that Ava was WRITING ALL OVER MY WALL WITH A PENCIL! Gahhhhhh! So, my initial reaction was, unfortunately, "Dammit!". So, I get myself together, put Ms. Ava in a timeout (as we have been in the situation before with chalk) and attempt to clean it off. Does it come off? Of course not. Our builder used a flat paint, for whatever reason, and although it's in a pretty inconspicuous place, it still bums me out. Fast forward a few hours and we're at Walmart picking up a few things. When we get out to the car the wind manages to push the cart into the car, not too bad, but just as they came together, my sweet and angelic Ava yells out at the top of her lungs, "DAMMIT!". Oh, what a proud moment that was for me. She has used it, appropriately, on numerous occasions since the incident happened and we're doing our best to try and fill her up with suitable replacements. Think, "Oh geez!". Good work, Mommy. Good work.

Speaking of timeouts, when Ava finds her little tushy in timeout she always tells me, "Ava being naughty.", which I've only said ONCE in her lifetime. Man, you gotta be careful around this girl. She remembers it ALL. On a lighter note, she does like to tell me, "Go play Ava's room?" when she wants to hang out in there. She has about a million books and around bed time when she's doing her best to procrastinate the inevitable she runs back and forth from the couch in the TV room to her bedroom with a slew of books asking, "Read book?". The best part, when she runs back to her room she always says, "Be right back!".

Okay, so we're had a pretty long week and since Curt was in Vegas all weekend and Ava managed to run a fever the whole 48 hours he was gone, we're ALL exhausted. Unfortunately for him, I have little sympathy in his post drinking-gambling-all night long partying exhaustion so he's just going to have to suck it up! ;)

We're taking a short vacation next weekend and it's all kind of on a whim! We have no hotel reservations - yet, and we have no idea what we're doing there. Sounds like a plan!

Sunday, September 19, 2010

Ode to Jessica Biel

Okay, seriously. This girl needs to just go away. Her perfection is killing me! I wish I had a suitable hair stylist capable of doing this "ombre effect" to my hair without making it look like I did it on purpose, which I think is the point. Her hair, her make up, her in-amazing-shape physique...I mean, really!

I absolutely love the subtleness of her make-up here. Less is more in my world. Gorgeous!

Um, someday I'll be motivated to have a body like this! I'm thinking P90X is somewhere in my future. I hear really good things about it...