Thursday, March 25, 2010

"Sometimes...

...that mountain you've been climbing, is just a grain of sand..." -Carrie Underwood.

(This picture? Oldie, but goodie...)

So, I'm just sitting here thinking how "tough" things have been for me lately with Ava going on what seems like a lifetime of being under the weather, and this is in addition to Curt working so much and taking on a new, more demanding job and it's making me kinda grouchy.

***But remember, I'm not supposed to be complaining!!! At least not until Lent is over. :)

And then, I come across these blogs, and realize that it was just the reality check I needed.

http://alittlepinkinaworldofcamo.blogspot.com/
http://laylagrace.org/

What I need is to find my patience and realize that at the end of the day, I'm so, so thankful for my sweet Ava and my overly-awesome husband.

Wow.

I needed that...

(ps: thanks to Kim for the blog reference on precious Layla.)

Monday, March 22, 2010

Word Of The Day: "Taco"


So, every night Ava gets her "scrub in the tub" before bedtime. For the last 17 months of her life we always say when she gets out, "Time to make the Ava-Taco" mostly because she gets wrapped up in a towel to get warm and dry off. Well, last night Curt was in the other room and I called him into the bathroom to help get her out of the tub because whenever Da is home, he always makes the..."Ava-Taco".

So I asked Ava, "Are you all done?

She then replied...."Taco"!!!

So, there you have it.

She was ready to become an "Ava-Taco".

Sunday, March 21, 2010

New Season, New Clothes

Okay, so not really, but here is a few things I'm lusting at the moment. I love me some Lily Pulitzer (the price tag, eh, not so much...) and JCrew (duh.) so here is the latest and greatest on my "please, oh please, can I have these...please? " list.

Lily Lovelies. This place screams SUMMER! They have the CUTEST dress ever that I'm eyeing up for Ava and the photo shoot we have planned in a couple weeks. I can't share it yet, it's a surprise!




JCrew. So, on a random note JCrew has been kinda makin' me mad lately. I love their old school style which I think they've been avoiding this past year. Yuck. Some stuff is just weird! I want my pretty, preppy, crisp whites and summer brights back, please! At least I've saved some $$$ in the mean time. I miss my JCrew...



LuLu's. (Haven't checked this store out yet? Prices are decent and they have some cute stuff!!!)



Hopefully I'll get to some more important updates tomorrow. Lots of changes going on with Curt at work and I think the conversation went something like this:

Curty: "Hey Moe, just wanted to let you know that I'm taking over the Weapons shop and won't have help until late June. So... I'll have twice as much work as I normally do. Basically, I'm going to be really, really busy. Oh, and in the next two months I'll be traveling for 6+ of the 8 weeks."

Me: (Silence.)

Curty: Is that okay?

Me: (Silence.)


Ha! In all seriousness, I'm used to this. So it's all good. I'm going to be in PA for most of his traveling days so that's kinda cool. Now, what to do with all that TDY money. As you can see from up above, I already have some ideas...

Monday, March 15, 2010

Word Of The Day: "NO!"

Mommy: "Ava, come here so Mommy can put your jacket on.", "Do you want to play upstairs?", "Are you hungry?"...etc.

Ava: "NOOOOOOOOO" on all accounts.

Lovely!

Friday, March 12, 2010

Ava's Read Aloud

"Elmo, sit here. I have this really great story to tell you!"

Ava has now started "reading" to Elmo, just as I read to her. So FUNNY. She plants him right in front of her, gets a good book, and then reads. She's quite animated. I'm pumped I finally got this on camera. The teacher in me is just so proud!

I have difficulty explaining the awesomeness that is my child, so I'll let the pictures do the job for me.


Elmo, this is a PIG. Can you say, "pig"?


And this, Elmo, is a "cow". The cow says, "MOOOOO"!

Oops, busted by "Moh-Meee" (Yes, we no longer say "MaMa". I'm just "Maaaa" or "Moh-Meeeeee")

Oh, and in case you were wondering, we still get frustrated when things get even remotely difficult. :)


Pretty fancy, huh? Oh, and aren't you uber-impressed with all my blogging skills recently. See! I told you I'd be back. What, what!!??!!??

Once Upon A Sick Day...


So, Miss Ava had quite the week! After a trip to the pediatrician and then a trip to the ER, we found out that Ava has yet another ear infection. Yuck! Her fever went up a little bit each day, starting on Monday, and come Thursday morning it was a whopping 104.2! Geeeeeeez. I know, I know...not SO bad in toddlers. But, when it's my toddler, I'm thinking what in the world is making you so sick??? We got out to her primary care doctor on Wednesday but just like the last ear infection, they told me "It looked all clear! It's probably a virus...". 24 hours later she was inconsolable and her fever had reached record highs, so I did what any normal parents would do and I FREAKED OUT. I couldn't get her another appointment on Thursday so it was off to the ER as the nurse help line instructed me to do so. Poor girl... I am hoping this doesn't lead to tubes but evidently Ava may have really narrow passages in her ears which can cause many infections.

This morning as I was driving around doing errands I tried to think to myself where, oh where, could Ava have gotten sick? You see, this all started with a nasty runny nose...

What do you think?

A: Marbles museum. A children's "please touch" museum frequented by hundreds of children ranging from 12 months to grade school on a daily basis.
B: Playdate. A drop in care center used by random children for random amounts of time 6 days per week. Again, toys are community and shared by all.
C: Walmart. As I was searching for some fresh produce I turned around and noticed that Ava had pulled up the cart cover and was she was gnawing on the handle.
D: Dada. Ava loves us so much that she's known to plant a big ol' kiss right on your lips when you least expect it! Dada spends his days in the manly-est of man caves and I'm pretty sure all their "toys" are community as well. Gross...
E: All of the above.

Any guesses?

But, it's finally Friday and we are feeling much, much better. I love me some bubble gum medicine!!! That stuff...amazing.

Before I go, I just wanted to include some fun pic's I just took of Ava and how I found her last night in our office. (I know, what a sad lookin' "office", but we haven't found any furniture that we like yet so it's lookin' a lil sub par, but we'll get there, someday...) Anyway, she's pretty innovative, huh? Can't sit in the big people chair, make your own!!! Good job, Ava!!!



Monday, March 8, 2010

Best Birthday Weekend


I just turned the big 2-9 and although we kept the special day low key, I had the best time with my family and friends. Curt took TWO WHOLE DAYS off from work to hang out with me. We intended on going to the Brad Paisley concert in Greenville and once we got online to buy our tickets, Curt realized the concert was in SOUTH Carolina. Silly Boy. He did still take his two days off and we took Ava to a really fun kids museum in Raleigh. I pretty sure she either got her nasty cold/diaper rash from the two new teeth she's about to cut OR the millions of toys she manhandled last week at both playdate and the museum. Oh well, germs make her stronger! (Not sleeping well at night, hmmm, that's another story...) This museum was great for Ava and although I do think she'll enjoy it a hundred times more in about a year, she still had an absolute blast while she was there.





Curt played Mr. Mom a lot this weekend and I have to say, I could get used to this! On Friday night I had a CRUD scrimmage at the o-club on base. Guess what kids? I love me some CRUD! I'm a tad more aggressive than I thought I'd be and I seriously get excited for practice and all that goes along with it. Curt and Ava tried to come and watch but she didn't quite understand why I wouldn't hold her and play with her so after about 30 minutes, Da took her home. We tried!!!



Oh ,and on Saturday night I had my first "Princess Party" which is a fun way for the spouses in the "Chiefs" (get it? princess and chief?) to get our own "Princess" name. I still have one more party to prove my worthiness but I think I'll manage. I made a batch of white chili was turned out to be the most popular dish there. Who woulda thought? We played some goofy games, had lots of food and drinks, and had our tribal council where 4 out of the 5 girls were named. I'll get mine in about a month!





Finally, last night we had our really good friends here to celebrate my birthday at the house. I made a HUGE pan of baked ziti and we had tons of fresh veggies and homemade salsa. So GOOD. My friend from high school, Nicole, also came over last night to hang out with us and it was just perfect. I didn't want this weekend to end...

As far as Ava, she's doing so awesome. (Nasty cold aside, of course...) She's a talking machine!!! We have some NEW ones, too! Instead of signing "more" she now says, "Mo"! So proud! She has also learned to ask for her drink of choice. Either "mlk" (milk) or "ju" (juice). She also says "hop" and "bop" (thank you, Barney!), and "ouse" (aka: mickey MOUSE!). Ava also has a favorite picture book that she used to love to read every night with my dad. She can pretty much point out every thing in that book that I ask her to find. It's quite impressive. Of course now, she prefers to point and label herself. She likes to point to the "babee" and the "ba-oll", or the "bottle". She's moved onto a fast paced walk, or something that looks like running. We had our first teeth plant into the hardwood floor this weekend and based on the amount of blood coming out of her mouth we were convinced she lost her front tooth. Never has she screamed so long or loud after a fall. What else? Oh- I also need to get this on video but Ava picks up on the hand and dance motions to songs so quickly. She's completely mastered "Itsy Bitsy Spider", "Gumdrops", "Green Grass Grows", "Happy and You Know It", and "Oh Mr. Sun". Amazing. My kid is like a mini-Curt. His smarty pants ways are constantly impressing me too. She still loves puzzles and I bought 6 more to feed her obsession. She is eating like a champ, although we're still stuck in the nasty pruee'd goodies. She eats like 5 jars a day! She still loves crackers, chips, and anything else salty and crunchy. I'm trying to be patient and I look forward to the day where she wants to eat spaghetti, macaroni and cheese, chicken...the works. I'm sure we'll get there soon!!! She has her 18 month appointment coming up in a few weeks and with that comes her statistics, immunizations, and some answers to the infamous head tilt. More below...

So, Momma's out there. I watch Ava like a hawk trying to determine how often and when I notice she tilts her head to the side. I try and see if she's doing it only during certain activities, certain times of the day (in relation to being tired), and how long it stays tilted. What I've noticed is this. Ava is 100% right handed. Whenever she sits down to play with something, she always sits to the side of it so she can use her right hand. With that position comes her head tilt because she is looking down at the toy and off to the side because of where she sat. I notice in playgroup and other places with kiddos her age that it's not really common in other children. She also constantly has a toy in her left hand. So she's playing with the right hand and has her left hand gripping a toy. I may have to take a picture so you can see what I'm rambling on about. Another thing that I've come up with is Ava has never had a good track record for napping well. She goes down for a nap with no problem but the length of her nap time has always been inconsistent. So, back when she was an infant I dealt with this by holding her for all her naps. I would cradle her in my arms and the way her head rested in my arm caused me to stretch her neck in the exact direction that it's tilted. Our physical therapist and previous pediatrician thinks this is irrelevant. Me, I'm not convinced it didn't play into the problem. We're talking 3-5 naps a day in my arms for about 2-3 months. Oh geez. I know I'm not a doctor, but like I've mentioned a million times before, I think Curt and I will be so happy once we get a answer.

Our house is slowly but surely coming together. We've hung a couple things here and there which has started making things look much more like home. We still have lots to do and buy so I'm going to hold out on the pictures until it's all completed. The next big buys are looking like screening in the porch, patio furniture, and a fence for the yard. We do not want a dog yet so yes, we're trapping in our kid. She's a wanderer! Plus, I don't want any "Stranger-Dangers" lurking around my property. Not to be a downer, but have you ever done a sex offender check for your area? You should do it! No matter where you set up camp, I guarantee you'll have an offender registered within 5-10 miles of your nice, residential neighbor hood. It's a scary world out there and I'm not willing to take any chances! We're getting a security system installed here shortly. (PS: Our neighbor hood is completely safe but when Curt's away I just feel so much better making sure Ava and I are taken care of...)

On a much lighter note...

Pillow Fight!!!!



I put most of my pictures and videos on FB because it's quick and easy. Video uploading on here drives me crazy! I hope you enjoy the pictures, though!
I'll leave you with my latest obsession. Hurry Up, Spring!!!!!!! (Summer, you can keep your distance. We've never been all that close any way...)

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

I Love My Ava Monkey


(The picture up top is pretty accurate to what she looks like most of the day. Crumbs on her face and all... Oh, and most hand held electronic devices are "phones".) I love her.

Momma: "Ava, what does the cow say?"
Ava: "Mooooo"
Momma: (Silence.)

Kids are amazing. Sponges.

In addition to that craziness up top, we now have a couple more words pouring out of her sweet little mouth:

-blohhh (block)
-ooyyys (toys)
-woooooooow (wow)
-dccckkkk (duck)
-juuuu (juice)
-uup (up...as is "take me upstairs to my toys, woman!")

She also LOVES to give me her "Surprised!!!" face, as well as her "Sad" face. So funny... We get the head tilted down and the big pouty lip. She really lays it on thick!

Finally, Aunt Deena taught Ava how to WINK the other day! It's more of a prolonged eye squint, but still!!! Loves it...


Finally....Go Pitt!!!! Thanks for the tee, Aunt Mariel!!!